Cheating.....
This is an article i came across about cheating and is a horrible reminder of whats going on around us and it also shows that God will soon put an end to all of it.......
Men:
Once we’ve seen a woman naked several times, it becomes commonplace. It doesn’t matter if you have a nice body cause we become accustomed to your body and want to experience something different – different lips, different body types.
Whether it’s evolution, biology or simple novelty, infidelity researchers agree that men do seek different sex partners.
Maybe he married too young,” “or he just feels as if he hasn’t seen everything.”
When some time has passed, they get bored and long for new excitement from another.
They also get tired of their woman's nagging.
So when their partner is tired from wrangling kids all day and unwilling to try new things, even the most loyal hubbies get bored and go looking for nookie.
More sexually permissive men who don’t have equally adventurous partners are also more apt to wander.
It’s hard to resist temptation, especially when it’s at our fingertips.
Thanks to the Internet, it’s easier for men to cheat anytime, anywhere… while they’re watching TV or on the laptop in bed next to their sleeping wives.
Women:
Now when a woman feels dissatisfied in her relationship, she doesn’t just complain to her friends. She gets a private email account, posts a profile at one of the many dating sites and starts looking for hookups herself.
Accurate stats on women’s infidelity are understandably hard to come by since ladies aren’t always keen on ’fessing up to their extracurricular activities.
“Women tend to keep these things to themselves, but there are signs that they’re catching up with the guys.”
The easy answer is that women today have the same opportunities to cheat as guys always did
Not only do working women have the chance to mix and mingle with would-be lovers (both in the office and on business trips), but the Internet is filled with chat rooms and Web sites that blatantly court married men and women looking for a little something on the side.
When a woman feels like little more than a household drudge, attention from someone else becomes extremely seductive.
If there’s a failure to communicate – which is so reinforcing to women in terms of intimacy, emotional satisfaction and relationship satisfaction – then women look outside the relationship for that kind of connection,
When you’re unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship, you’re more likely to be tempted to look elsewhere.”
When you start doing things separately, your odds of connecting with others who share your interests increase,
Woman seek the thrill of the chase and like the attention a new man will give her.
Women who have false illusions tend to end up cheating because they never really knew the guy to begin with... or hoped he would change,”
You can be in a relationship with a perfectly wonderful, loving man and still need extra affirmation that you’ve got it goin’ on.
Sleeping with someone else is an easy way to remind yourself that you’re desirable.
“Even if your partner is reassuring, for whatever reason, it’s not enough,” “and so you look elsewhere, so you can feel like you’re lovable.”
And when a woman catches her man with his hand in someone else’s cookie jar, she figures she’s got a right to a little indulgence of her own.
If a woman finds out her significant other has been cheating, she may heal those hurt feelings by having sex with another man,”
It's estimated that up to 55% of women and 60% of men cheat at some point during their marriages.
Note:
“Cheating is defined as anything that breaches a relationship contract.”
“That includes “sexy communication and flirting that’s kept secret from your partner.”
These things happen everyday throughout the world and the only way to stay clear of it all is to find someone who puts God first in their lives and is determined to stay on the right path. Also, by having God in your lives and together serving him, all the nagging and boredom won't be as big of an issue, cause God is your strength.
Remember, the devil likes cheaters and wants to see your downfalls, don't let him win.
A little tip.....Remember why you fell in love and always be thankful for everything you have.
Men:
Once we’ve seen a woman naked several times, it becomes commonplace. It doesn’t matter if you have a nice body cause we become accustomed to your body and want to experience something different – different lips, different body types.
Whether it’s evolution, biology or simple novelty, infidelity researchers agree that men do seek different sex partners.
Maybe he married too young,” “or he just feels as if he hasn’t seen everything.”
When some time has passed, they get bored and long for new excitement from another.
They also get tired of their woman's nagging.
So when their partner is tired from wrangling kids all day and unwilling to try new things, even the most loyal hubbies get bored and go looking for nookie.
More sexually permissive men who don’t have equally adventurous partners are also more apt to wander.
It’s hard to resist temptation, especially when it’s at our fingertips.
Thanks to the Internet, it’s easier for men to cheat anytime, anywhere… while they’re watching TV or on the laptop in bed next to their sleeping wives.
Women:
Now when a woman feels dissatisfied in her relationship, she doesn’t just complain to her friends. She gets a private email account, posts a profile at one of the many dating sites and starts looking for hookups herself.
Accurate stats on women’s infidelity are understandably hard to come by since ladies aren’t always keen on ’fessing up to their extracurricular activities.
“Women tend to keep these things to themselves, but there are signs that they’re catching up with the guys.”
The easy answer is that women today have the same opportunities to cheat as guys always did
Not only do working women have the chance to mix and mingle with would-be lovers (both in the office and on business trips), but the Internet is filled with chat rooms and Web sites that blatantly court married men and women looking for a little something on the side.
When a woman feels like little more than a household drudge, attention from someone else becomes extremely seductive.
If there’s a failure to communicate – which is so reinforcing to women in terms of intimacy, emotional satisfaction and relationship satisfaction – then women look outside the relationship for that kind of connection,
When you’re unhappy or dissatisfied in your relationship, you’re more likely to be tempted to look elsewhere.”
When you start doing things separately, your odds of connecting with others who share your interests increase,
Woman seek the thrill of the chase and like the attention a new man will give her.
Women who have false illusions tend to end up cheating because they never really knew the guy to begin with... or hoped he would change,”
You can be in a relationship with a perfectly wonderful, loving man and still need extra affirmation that you’ve got it goin’ on.
Sleeping with someone else is an easy way to remind yourself that you’re desirable.
“Even if your partner is reassuring, for whatever reason, it’s not enough,” “and so you look elsewhere, so you can feel like you’re lovable.”
And when a woman catches her man with his hand in someone else’s cookie jar, she figures she’s got a right to a little indulgence of her own.
If a woman finds out her significant other has been cheating, she may heal those hurt feelings by having sex with another man,”
It's estimated that up to 55% of women and 60% of men cheat at some point during their marriages.
Note:
“Cheating is defined as anything that breaches a relationship contract.”
“That includes “sexy communication and flirting that’s kept secret from your partner.”
These things happen everyday throughout the world and the only way to stay clear of it all is to find someone who puts God first in their lives and is determined to stay on the right path. Also, by having God in your lives and together serving him, all the nagging and boredom won't be as big of an issue, cause God is your strength.
Remember, the devil likes cheaters and wants to see your downfalls, don't let him win.
A little tip.....Remember why you fell in love and always be thankful for everything you have.
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