Godly Young Men Speak About Girls: A Must Read

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="full-post-img" style="border: 2px solid rgb(129, 132, 134); margin: 0px auto; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 3px; width: 510px;"> <a href="http://www.girldefined.com/guys-speak-girls-showing-cleavage" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: none; font-weight: bold; margin: 0pt; outline: none !important; padding: 0pt; text-decoration: none;"><span style="color: black; font-size: large;"><img alt="Photo" height="357" src="http://www.girldefined.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/origin_5148700941-2.jpg" style="border: none; margin: 0pt; outline: none !important; padding: 0pt;" width="510" /></span></a></div> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <div align="center" class="cuopon_author" style="border: 0pt none; font-weight: bold; margin: 6px 0pt 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">By: Bethany Baird</span></span></div> <div id="the_content" style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0px auto; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">The girls in the audience sat on the edges of their seats as they watched the video play. The speaker had recorded several different godly guys sharing their personal thoughts and opinions on the topic of modesty.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">The guys were asked very specific questions about modesty and then the recording was replayed on the big screen for the girls.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">One question was asked,  </strong>“When a girl shows midriff is that a temptation for you as a guy? Why or why not?”</span></em></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">The girls in the audience were shocked to hear the responses from the guys.</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">The girls had no idea that the clothes they wear could be such a hindrance and temptation to the Christian guys around them.</span></span></div> <div style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">The girls in the audience had only viewed modesty from a girl’s mind, but never stopped to think of modesty from a guy’s perspective.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">That’s exactly what I want to do in this blog. I want to bring in a few godly guys and have them share their thoughts on a very specific topic.</span></strong></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">I’ve been observing and there seems to be a white elephant in the room that not many are addressing. I’m not sure if it’s because we as girls just don’t want to talk about it, or we don’t care, or that we’re just oblivious. It’s time to stop being oblivious and start talking about the elephant.</span></span></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">The white elephant in the room is this: Christian girls showing off cleavage.</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">I have a feeling some of you are thinking, “This is another legalistic post putting rules in the Bible that aren’t there.” Actually, no. This is simply a challenge to myself and to my sisters in Christ to rethink modesty in the area of showing off cleavage.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">It’s a challenge to evaluate your current modesty standards and see if there is any way you can become more of a blessing to the Christian guys around you.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">I want you to step out of your girly mind and try to view yourself from a guy’s perspective for just a minute.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">Put all of your ideas about modesty on hold. Put your defenses down and open your ears and listen to what some godly guys think. Are you willing to do that? Here we go:</span></span></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Godly Guy #1</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">“I don’t want to be dogmatic about it, but I would say that, in general, I do appreciate it when girls cover up cleavage…depending on the situation, it can be just a bit less distracting that way. Sometimes you can tell when a girl is trying to use the way she’s dressed as a way to get attention. It’s the spirit she has.”</span></em></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Godly Guy #2</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Almost every time a woman’s cleavage is left exposed before a man’s eyes, the man will mentally acknowledge that part of the woman’s anatomy, and be tempted to sin.</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Now, I understand that our culture’s dress code allows for women to show certain parts of their breasts. The sad fact of life, though, is that when men see a small part, it’s very easy for them to imagine the whole thing.</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">I don’t want anyone to hear me say that girls are responsible for my sin if I lust after them though. I have the power that comes from Christ to cut off the chain immediately after I’m tempted and keep myself from sinning.</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">I just want girls to know that I have a huge appreciation for those of you who are sensitive to the weaknesses found in their brothers in Christ, and who are kind enough to cover their intimate areas so that I am not sorely tempted to sin against God.”</span></em></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Godly Guy #3</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">It’s confusing to me when Christian girls reveal cleavage. Our mission and aim as Christians is to show honor to God through what we do – and showing off your cleavage to the world, I’m pretty sure, isn’t directing people’s eyes to God; it’s directing them to your body.</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">I’d be honored and impressed if the girl I marry had realized early on what a precious gift her body was for me and my eyes alone and had decided not to reveal anything more than was necessary to the world.”</span></em></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Godly Guy #4</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">When cleavage is revealed a whole new dimension (literally and mentally) to a girl’s body is opened up in a guy’s mind. It’s not like guys should try to ignore the fact that a girl’s body is different than his own. But just because guys know the difference doesn’t mean girls should let every guy see that difference.</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Showing cleavage also exposes and reveals a private part of your body that should be saved for the enjoyment of your future husband. It just takes away how special it is, and diminishes the value of that part of your body.</span></em></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Wow! Talk about insight into a guy’s perspective.</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">It’s so interesting to me that each one of those guys was basically against girls showing off cleavage. They each acknowledged that when a girl is showing cleavage, it’s distracting and can be a temptation. We should take that to heart and apply it to our outfit selections.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">Here is the good news, there are still godly guys out there who value you for more than just your body. There are single guys out there striving for purity. That is really encouraging!</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">With all that being said, let me make a very clear point here:</strong> The ultimate purpose and goal for having any modesty standards should be to honor Christ first. Your heart should be focused primarily on honoring Christ in this area and as a result you will most likely bless your brothers in Christ. The purpose of this post is simply to give you an inside scoop into a godly guy’s brain.</span></span></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Putting it into action.</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">I want to challenge you to think through each of these guy’s comments and evaluate your current wardrobe. When you get dressed each morning ask yourself these questions:</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">1.</strong> When I am talking with a guy will he be tempted to look at my chest instead of my face?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">2</strong>. Is my shirt so tight that a guy can visualize vividly what’s underneath?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">3.</strong> When I lean, bend, move etc., will the guys around me be able to see down my shirt?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">4.</strong> What are my motives in wearing this top? Am I fishing for attention from guys and using my cleavage as a lure to get that?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><strong style="border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;">5.</strong> If I think this shirt could be a temptation to guys, am I willing to change and wear something else?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">If we each answered these questions honestly, I think it would change the way that we dressed. In the end though It comes down to your heart motivation. Do you desire to push your brothers in Christ towards purity? Do you desire to point their eyes towards Christ and not towards yourself?</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">When your heart’s desire is to point others to Christ and not yourself, dressing modestly becomes so much easier.</span></span></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Wrapping it up.</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">We’ve just heard from several single godly guys who each expressed appreciation for girls who desire to help guys out by covering up their cleavage. These guys aren’t against a woman’s beauty or body, they just want to preserve their hearts and eyes for their future wife’s body.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">There is a time and place to show off all of your God given beautiful body, but until you’re married it’s not the time. Just check out Proverbs 5:15-23 if you aren’t quite convinced of that. Or, take a quick scan in Song of Solomon and you will see that there is definitely a time to show off your beautiful body within the context of marriage.</span></span></div> <h1 dir="ltr" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">Let me leave you with one more comment from a godly guy:</span></strong></h1> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <em style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0pt none; margin: 0pt; outline: invert none 0pt; padding: 0pt;"><span style="font-size: large;">“Guys are 100% responsible for guarding their eyes and choosing not to lust. But it sure is a blessing when Christian girls choose to help us out by dressing modestly”</span></em></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">Let’s view our clothing choices as an opportunity to bless (not hinder) the Christian guys around us.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">I’d love to hear your thoughts on the guy’s comments about cleavage. Feel free to ask questions, share insight, or add to what’s been said.</span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></span></div> <div dir="ltr" style="padding: 0px 29px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><span style="font-size: large;">COMMENT</span></span></div> <div> <br /></div> </div> </div>

Godly Young Men Speak About Girls: A Must Read

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Smart Ways to Recover from Betrayal

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> -By Jennifer Houston<br /> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><img alt="Smart Ways to Recover from Betrayal" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1736" height="333" src="http://womanitely.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/Smart-Ways-to-Recover-from-Betrayal.jpg?62d6e5" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" width="500" /></span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I believe that healing after betrayal is possible. The main point is to be patient enough to deal with anger and grief after the betrayal. This break of trust seems to be the most disgusting thing in the world. It has broken a great number of friendships and marriages. Moreover, this process can seriously affect your self-esteem and make you experience a depression, especially if it happens suddenly.</span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You may discover a betrayal over time. First of all, you begin to notice a series of lies and then suspect your partner of betrayal, because the respect and trust are already broken. It seems to be impossible to forgive the person who has destroyed your love and your world. However, you shouldn’t lose your heart since this negative experience may help you grow emotionally and get rid of bad and insincere people.</span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">While recovering from betrayal isn’t an easy thing, I hope these tips will help you overcome this life difficulty.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1. Tell about your pain</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">One of the most important steps in dealing with betrayal recovery is to tell the offender about your pain and feelings. Explain to them that they have hurt you and you are going through tough times at the moment. By all means, try to keep yourself well in hand and avoid scandals, because it may worsen your emotional state. You will let them know that you cannot trust them again. They should become aware of the actions they have done and feel the responsibility for this difficult situation.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">2. Accept your emotions</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Unfortunately, different kinds of betrayal can force you to experience a wide range of negative emotions. These are confusion, anger, sadness and others. You shouldn’t reject these emotions. It’s desirable to accept things you are suffering from, no matter how difficult it can be. Don’t conceal your grief, because it’s normal to face negative emotions. If you know what you feel, you have more chances to rethink and let your problems go away.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">3. Take it easy</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Don’t cry and don’t avoid communication with others. It’s desirable to give yourself some period of time to grieve before pushing yourself to move on. It will clear your mind and help you let your emotions go away. It is easier to take right decisions, when you are calm and reasonable. Moreover, you need time to comprehend the conflict and realize what to do next.</span></div> <div> <br /></div> <br /> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">4. Boost your self-confidence</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Self-confidence is one of the most significant things that help you hold out against the betrayal. Build a good self-esteem reminding yourself that you’re a wonderful person. Focus on your positive qualities and achievements and don’t let such challenge as betrayal spoil your beautiful life. Self-confident people are well resistant to problems, because they believe in themselves and their abilities. Consequently they have more opportunities to overcome difficulties since they don’t depend on others. Plus, self-confidence will help you kill negative thoughts.</span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">5. Do things you enjoy</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You should try to replace your grief with positive emotions. Create a positive atmosphere around yourself in order to get rid of the constant reminders of negativity. Watch a funny comedy or take a trip with your best friends. It will draw you away from annoying negative thoughts and inspire you to do things that fill your life with new adventures and happiness. It’s better to develop an optimistic vision of the world. Those people who do things they enjoy can easily turn their attention to new and positive moments.</span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">6. Take your anger under control</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Anger is a slow killer of both your physical and mental well-being. This feeling can also steal your happiness and develop negative thinking. Gautama Budha once said, “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” You should try to control your anger and suppress the desire to take revenge on the person that hurt you. The control of your anger will help you avoid doing stupid actions you might regret later. Be careful with anger, because it’s a dangerous weapon that can break hearts.</span></div> <br /> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">7. Practice forgiveness</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Forgiveness is an important part of emotional growth. This difficult step will help you move on and clear your mind of hatred and anger. Mahatma Gandhi once said a wise thing, “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. “I realize that it’s difficult to forgive when your heart hurts, but you should try to change your life for better. Don’t let the past poison your present moment.</span></h2> <br /> <div class="ssba" style="background-image: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"> </div> <br /> <div style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.235294); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 17px; margin: 1.5em 0px; orphans: auto; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"> Only a strong desire to recover from betrayal will help you start a new life, because nothing is impossible. Follow these tips and hopefully they will help you forget about the pain of betrayal in a quite short period of time. Have you ever dealt with a betrayal? How did you recover from it? Share your thoughts, please.</div> </div>

Smart Ways to Recover from Betrayal

-By Jennifer Houston I believe that healing after betrayal is possible. The main point is to be patient enough to deal with anger and g...

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