10 Habits of Happy Couples. #5 Will Blow Your Mind

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Happy couples know that the real relationship begins when the honeymoon is over. They know that unless you maintain the garden of love, its beauty will wither and die.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#1. Go to bed at the same time.</strong><br />Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn’t wait to go to bed with each other to make love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps. And when their skins touch it still causes each of them to tingle and unless one or both are completely exhausted to feel sexually excited.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/2610191681_dd8b6a1f05_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="2610191681_dd8b6a1f05_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1949" height="557" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/2610191681_dd8b6a1f05_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="743" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#2. Cultivate common interests.</strong><br />After the passion settles down, it’s common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don’t minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/970812_10152009662463616_1035290312_n.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="970812_10152009662463616_1035290312_n" class="aligncenter wp-image-1950" height="511" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/970812_10152009662463616_1035290312_n.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="737" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#3. Walk hand in hand or side by side.</strong><br />Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it’s more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/12520298744_0e5b6bca53_h.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="12520298744_0e5b6bca53_h" class="aligncenter wp-image-1951" height="553" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/12520298744_0e5b6bca53_h-1024x768.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="738" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode.</strong><br />If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can’t resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/8338143716_c774c3604e_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="8338143716_c774c3604e_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1952" height="929" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/8338143716_c774c3604e_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="743" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong.</strong><br />If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/12240756115_9bfb3df07f_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="12240756115_9bfb3df07f_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1953" height="498" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/12240756115_9bfb3df07f_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="747" /></span></a></div> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><br />Read more at http://goweloveit.info/lifestyle/10-habits-of-happy-couples-5-is-the-most-valuable-advice-ever/#pC5g8mK2wY9RETdU.99</span><br /> <br /> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work.</strong><br />Our skin has a memory of “good touch” (loved), “bad touch” (abused) and “no touch” (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the “good touch,” which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/5649051610_824e14d3c2_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="SONY DSC" class="aligncenter wp-image-1954" height="491" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/5649051610_824e14d3c2_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="734" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#7. Say “I love you” and “Have a good day” every morning.</strong><br />This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/2884342917_7c54d2dea4_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="2884342917_7c54d2dea4_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1955" height="480" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/2884342917_7c54d2dea4_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="721" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#8. Say “Good night” every night, regardless of how you feel.</strong><br />This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Picture-Grumpy-Cat-Wallpaper-HD-e1376713892698-1240x826.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="Picture-Grumpy-Cat-Wallpaper-HD-e1376713892698-1240x826" class="aligncenter wp-image-1956" height="481" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Picture-Grumpy-Cat-Wallpaper-HD-e1376713892698-1240x826-1024x682.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="723" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#9. Do a “weather” check during the day.</strong><br />Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/9704164224_f452df4c8f_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="9704164224_f452df4c8f_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1957" height="547" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/9704164224_f452df4c8f_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="729" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><strong style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">#10. Be proud to be seen with your partner.</strong><br />Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact — hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <a href="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/5707239629_6c6902f7c2_b.jpg" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.2s linear; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; line-height: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.2s linear; vertical-align: baseline;"><span style="color: black;"><img alt="5707239629_6c6902f7c2_b" class="aligncenter wp-image-1958" height="473" src="http://goweloveit.info/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/5707239629_6c6902f7c2_b.jpg" style="border: 0px; font-style: inherit; font-variant: inherit; height: auto !important; margin: 0px; max-width: 100%; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="709" /></span></a></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <br /></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Happy couples have different habits than unhappy couples. A habit is a discrete behavior that you do automatically and that takes little effort to maintain. It takes 21 days of daily repetition of a new a behavior to become a habit. So select one of the behaviors in the list above to do for 21 days and voila, it will become a habit…and make you happier as a couple. And if you fall off the wagon, don’t despair, just apologize to your partner, ask their forgiveness and recommit yourself to getting back in the habit.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">If there was one key to happiness in love and life and possibly even success it would be to go into each conversation you have with this commandment to yourself front and foremost in your mind, “Just Listen” and be more interested than interesting, more fascinated than fascinating and more adoring than adorable. <span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><br /></span></span></div> <br /></div>

10 Habits of Happy Couples. #5 Will Blow Your Mind

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display: inline;"> Why would anyone decide that people should not gather like this to worship God? From the way life is going it seems many prefer to see riotous gathering of drunks rather than a gathering where people give their time to worshiping to God. Christians have always been at the receiving end when it come to persecution. The surprising aspect of it all is that, while Christians are barred, intimidated, persecuted, imprisoned, killed and subjected to very life threatening conditions, just for being Christian, the World moves on as though nothing is happening! For a very long time I wondered why this was so.</div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <div style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); display: inline;"> <br /></div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <div style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); display: inline;"> Though I know better today, yet it is still baffling at a human level. Come to think about it, what will it take for you, as a person, to behead a little child? This must be an action stemming from complete soul allegiance to Satan and his plans in ax change for whatever interest. </div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <div style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); display: inline;"> For the people who are carrying out bizarre, murderous, callous and unimaginable act of genocide, there is only one message for you. Yes, as you have decided to sell your soul to Satan, choosing to give full and unmitigated allegiance and loyalty to the Devil, even so you must hear the Truth.</div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <div style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); display: inline;"> <br /></div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <div style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); display: inline;"> To the people of Yazidi and Christians who have for as long as life has being, resided and lived where you are forcing them to flee from today, you unashamedly told, "The only message for you is the sword". Well, you in return need to hear the truth. I am sure that the only thing that hurts Satan and as many that have chosen to go his path is The Truth, so you should know it right away. It is not meant to bring pain to you but to allay your fears but if it turns out that you are pained by it then sorry,  I can't help you there.</div> </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <br /></div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> What is the truth? Have you not heard that killing Christians just because of their faith result only to building the faith and boldness of others. They may cringe in fear of the sword and the inhuman acts that you may mete out to them yet, what you will get is more commitment to their Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, Son of the Living  God. The truth is that, those of them that you murdered must have felt the pain of your wicked and satanic acts but don't be deceived, they are at rest right now. Christians get welcomed to the true place of rest. </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <br /></div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> The people who kill Christians so as to wipe Christianity off the earth are only living in complete darkness because one day it shall be over and you will have the whole world to yourselves. So, don't hurry, you will soon have it! Should I call on you to stop what you are doing? What should I say? I laugh at how suddenly I have your attention. You just want to hear my opinion, then you got it!</div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <br /></div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> I wish you The Truth, who is Jesus Christ, Son of the living  God!</div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> As many among you that will turn your hearts to Him and say, save me Jesus Christ, He will do so. He will forgive you. Are you surprised at that? Well, they say that this aspect of Christianity is the foolish aspect of it. But I can tell you that it is this 'foolishness' that expresses the power we have over our enemies: The power to forgive them just as our Saviour and Lord would do. If you will say, Sorry Jesus and mean it with all your heart, then He will forgive you and you will experience a life you have for so long been robbed of by Satan and his ways.</div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> <br /></div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> Knowing that you are created by God, I wish you Jesus Christ. </div> <div class="_5pbx userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id="js_18" style="overflow: hidden;"> Shalom</div> <div> <div data-ft="{"tn":"H"}"> </div> </div> </div>

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Where Did Your Joy Go?

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <span style="font-size: large;">The world is getting more confusing, complex and unfriendly to so many people. But, people who have learned to look up to God cannot be as confused and bewildered.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">Look at the faces of several people and you will see that joy is no longer there. For me, it is something close to a tragedy or something like that, to live in this season of life and not experience joy. Knowing that joy does not come through things; acquisitions of money, wealth, material things, power, social status, titles, political power or anything that this side of eternity can offer, I marvel at the rate with which people seek it where it cannot be found.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">See, I'm not in any way suggesting that, being wealthy or rich, acquiring material things or going for and having political power is wrong, no. What I desire that you carefully look at and think about is the fact that, looking for the right thing at the wrong place will never be correct.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">Many of us are missing out on joy because we are looking for it at the wrong places or through the wrong channels.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">So, where did your joy go? Oh, think about your younger years, when your face used to be full of smiles and laughter was so easy to come by. What happened as you grew older?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">Sorry, what usually happen that as many people (not everyone, though) get older they seem to be losing out on joy. Shouldn't it have been that as people grow and get more experienced about life, they will learn to grow in experiencing joy? Are you with me?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">So, what is the real issue here?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">1. You may be holding on to your past too tightly to embrace the present.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">Some people are so wealthy that you cannot stop imagining why they look so unhappy and not just that they look unhappy, they are truly unhappy. For many of them, they have refused to let their past, pass. They have grown to develop the habit of always bringing their past to the present and so are not able to find joy right there with them.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">2. May be, the future is now your present.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">There is a way people worry about the future that makes their lives swap their present with the future. Such people look to the future with so much fear. This fear is usually because they do not see the present and the opportunities it brings. So, they miss out on everything in life. With such fear of the future they will never be able to do what they ought to do today so as to have a better future. Their actions in the present destroys the future which is possible and which they really need.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">They worry and fear what is not even there. This usually come because people refuse to learn positive lessons from their past so as to make the right choices today for the best that the future hold. So, they look at the future and see nothing to push them to be the best that they can be today. Now, how can there be joy in such a life?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">3. Have you left God somewhere?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;">God is not the one that usually leaves. He is here everyday, every time and everywhere. Whenever and wherever anyone makes the choice to humbly, genuinely and truly call on God, surely He will answer. It is not about who you are or what you have done in the past, no! It is about going beyond your past to accept your need of God and actually, truly and humbly calling Him in surrender, with all your heart. If we were to keep focusing on our very 'smelly' pasts, no one will even have the boldness to say that he or she is calling onto God. This is because every man or woman born of a woman has a messy past, which we supposed to ashamed of. Now, let me tell you what I found out.</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">There is an experience of this life where you will no longer be ashamed of your messy past, remembering them with so much effort to try to keep their thought away, but remembering them with thanksgiving to God because you know that you are forgiven and no more the same person that did those 'bag things' in the past. Yes, that life exists!</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">Ask God to have mercy on you, forgive and wash you with the blood of Jesus Christ. You need to believe that Jesus' death on the Cross was and is still for your sins, both past and present. If, right now, you accept Jesus' death on the Cross, as the payment for your sins, then you will see a difference. And, I AM SURE OF IT!</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">Your joy is waiting for YOU! So, what would you do about that?</span><br /> <span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span> <span style="font-size: large;">Ebere Samuel's Blog</span></div>

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Smart Ways to Recover from Betrayal

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> -By Jennifer Houston<br /> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px; text-align: left;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);"><img alt="Smart Ways to Recover from Betrayal" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1736" height="333" src="http://womanitely.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/Smart-Ways-to-Recover-from-Betrayal.jpg?62d6e5" style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" width="500" /></span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">I believe that healing after betrayal is possible. The main point is to be patient enough to deal with anger and grief after the betrayal. This break of trust seems to be the most disgusting thing in the world. It has broken a great number of friendships and marriages. Moreover, this process can seriously affect your self-esteem and make you experience a depression, especially if it happens suddenly.</span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You may discover a betrayal over time. First of all, you begin to notice a series of lies and then suspect your partner of betrayal, because the respect and trust are already broken. It seems to be impossible to forgive the person who has destroyed your love and your world. However, you shouldn’t lose your heart since this negative experience may help you grow emotionally and get rid of bad and insincere people.</span></div> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">While recovering from betrayal isn’t an easy thing, I hope these tips will help you overcome this life difficulty.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1. Tell about your pain</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">One of the most important steps in dealing with betrayal recovery is to tell the offender about your pain and feelings. Explain to them that they have hurt you and you are going through tough times at the moment. By all means, try to keep yourself well in hand and avoid scandals, because it may worsen your emotional state. You will let them know that you cannot trust them again. They should become aware of the actions they have done and feel the responsibility for this difficult situation.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">2. Accept your emotions</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Unfortunately, different kinds of betrayal can force you to experience a wide range of negative emotions. These are confusion, anger, sadness and others. You shouldn’t reject these emotions. It’s desirable to accept things you are suffering from, no matter how difficult it can be. Don’t conceal your grief, because it’s normal to face negative emotions. If you know what you feel, you have more chances to rethink and let your problems go away.</span></div> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">3. Take it easy</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Don’t cry and don’t avoid communication with others. It’s desirable to give yourself some period of time to grieve before pushing yourself to move on. It will clear your mind and help you let your emotions go away. It is easier to take right decisions, when you are calm and reasonable. Moreover, you need time to comprehend the conflict and realize what to do next.</span></div> <div> <br /></div> <br /> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">4. Boost your self-confidence</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Self-confidence is one of the most significant things that help you hold out against the betrayal. Build a good self-esteem reminding yourself that you’re a wonderful person. Focus on your positive qualities and achievements and don’t let such challenge as betrayal spoil your beautiful life. Self-confident people are well resistant to problems, because they believe in themselves and their abilities. Consequently they have more opportunities to overcome difficulties since they don’t depend on others. Plus, self-confidence will help you kill negative thoughts.</span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">5. Do things you enjoy</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You should try to replace your grief with positive emotions. Create a positive atmosphere around yourself in order to get rid of the constant reminders of negativity. Watch a funny comedy or take a trip with your best friends. It will draw you away from annoying negative thoughts and inspire you to do things that fill your life with new adventures and happiness. It’s better to develop an optimistic vision of the world. Those people who do things they enjoy can easily turn their attention to new and positive moments.</span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">6. Take your anger under control</span></span></h2> <div style="margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-top: 1.5em; padding: 0px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Anger is a slow killer of both your physical and mental well-being. This feeling can also steal your happiness and develop negative thinking. Gautama Budha once said, “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” You should try to control your anger and suppress the desire to take revenge on the person that hurt you. The control of your anger will help you avoid doing stupid actions you might regret later. Be careful with anger, because it’s a dangerous weapon that can break hearts.</span></div> <br /> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">7. Practice forgiveness</span></span></h2> <h2 style="font-weight: normal; margin: 0px; padding: 10px 0px 15px;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Forgiveness is an important part of emotional growth. This difficult step will help you move on and clear your mind of hatred and anger. Mahatma Gandhi once said a wise thing, “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. “I realize that it’s difficult to forgive when your heart hurts, but you should try to change your life for better. Don’t let the past poison your present moment.</span></h2> <br /> <div class="ssba" style="background-image: none; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"> </div> <br /> <div style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.235294); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 17px; margin: 1.5em 0px; orphans: auto; padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"> Only a strong desire to recover from betrayal will help you start a new life, because nothing is impossible. Follow these tips and hopefully they will help you forget about the pain of betrayal in a quite short period of time. Have you ever dealt with a betrayal? How did you recover from it? Share your thoughts, please.</div> </div>

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10 Most Important Things to Know about Relationships

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <div class="entry-text" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <h1 class="entry-title" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 10px 0px 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); font-size: small;">By Olga Kachma</span></h1> </div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">A happy and successful relationship is something that every couple strives for. At the very beginning of our love affair we are generally overwhelmed with passion and excitement and it seems our affection will last forever and nothing can spoil our ideal relations with the one we love. But when we move to the next stage, we face numerous problems like misunderstanding, distrust, jealousy and finally quarrels. All these things may happen if both partners are not experienced enough and their perception of love is rather distorted. In order to be happy together, you and your sweetheart should be aware of certain things that will help you to build a perfect and long lasting relationship. Here are some of the most crucial rules that every couple must always keep in mind.</span><img alt="Important Things You and Your Partner Should Know about Relationship " class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-24687" height="334" src="http://cdn2.amerikanki.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Most-Important-Things-about-Relationships.jpg?1f3802" style="border: 0px; display: block; margin: 0px auto; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 9px 0px; vertical-align: baseline;" width="500" /></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">1. Communicate Clearly</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Every time you communicate with your significant other, don’t forget to speak your mind clearly. You love each other and there must not be any secrets between the two of you. That is the basic rule you should stick to. Sometimes we don’t express our thoughts and desires, expecting that our partner can guess what we want to say. Unfortunately, they are not able to read our mind, so it is necessary to tell them everything distinctly, without any hints. This way, you will avoid unwanted troubles that may have a negative impact on your relationship.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">2. Learn to Forgive Each Other</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">If you plan future with your lover, you should certainly be ready to forgive one another. Otherwise, your happiness will not last for a long time. There are no perfect people in this world and everyone can be mistaken sometimes. Surely, it doesn’t mean you should easily forget all his bad deeds, but you also don’t need to hold your grudge for weeks. Instead try to accept your guy’s wrong behavior and forgive him. Your relations will get much better and you’ll enjoy your intimate feelings to the full.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Read also – <a href="http://en.amerikanki.com/tips-forgive-people/" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">7 Tips on How to Forgive Other People</a></strong></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">3. Everyone Has Bad Days</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It’s not a secret that all people can have hard days during which they feel depressed or even angry. So, you must consider this fact in order to prevent stressful situations with your boyfriend. When you see he is nervous, try to find out the reason of his stress and don’t get offended quickly. Perhaps your partner’s emotional state is caused by various problems connected with his job or friends. Sometimes we can wake up in a bad mood. At such moments everybody and everything annoy us. If you have noticed that your guy is irritated, it would be better for you to give him private space and leave him alone for some time. Don’t take it personally.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">4. Be Kind to Your Partner</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Kindness is highly appreciated by all people. Undoubtedly, a kind person appears more attractive and pleasant for others. Being kind is necessary to achieve a mutual understanding and harmony with those who surround us. Nowadays our life is very busy and we often forget about kindness and its great power. Actually, you don’t have to spend much time to display your kind attitude to the one you love. In my opinion, kindness is one of the easiest ways to improve any relationship and reach a compromise with a partner. After all, it’s never late to start being kind.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">5. The Value of Commitment</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">There is no true love without commitment. This is the most efficient way to express your feelings to your significant other. You can use hundreds of words to describe your love, however, when you commit to your man, he will see that you are sincere with him and how much he is precious for you. Thus, every couple should realize the importance of commitment in their relationship. It will allow you to rely on your partner whatever happens and that is the key to a long lasting relationship.</span></div> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <strong style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Read also – <a href="http://en.amerikanki.com/ways-make-him-fall-love-with-you/" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">8 Best Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You</a></strong></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">6. Laughing Together is Helpful</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Everybody knows that laughter is enormously beneficial for our health and our mood either. When it comes to our relationship the role of laughter can’t be overestimated. Is there anything more wonderful than the ability of two people who love one another to laugh together? I’m convinced that all couples go through rough times once in a while. Laughing together is a fantastic solution for you whenever you argue with your sweetheart. It will relieve the tension and you’ll feel relaxed.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">7. Not to Quarrel in Front of Others</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">Quarrels and disagreements are an indispensable part of every healthy relationship. Therefore, you should expect that sooner or later you’ll be at odds with your partner as it is a common thing. We can hardly imagine a man and a woman whose relations are ideal and who always understand each other. Everything that happens between you and your lover is your own business and you don’t have to demonstrate others your personal life. The less people know about you, the happier you are.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">8. You and Your Partner Can Still Have Friends</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">You shouldn’t exclude yourself from your social circle just to spend time with your sweetheart 24/7. And your partner shouldn’t forget about his friends. You and your partner still have other people who also want to spend time with both of you. You should give one another space to keep your relationship fresh. So make sure you keep up with your family and friends and your partner does the same.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">9. Keep Your Relationship More Private</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">While there’s nothing wrong with posting a few nice pictures here and there on Facebook or Instagram, you and your partner should keep your relationship more private. This means that you shouldn’t post each picture you take. No one wants to see numerous pictures of you kissing each day. Moreover, don’t Tweet about your plans a few times a day. Keeping the relationship more private is the key to a successful relationship.</span></div> <h3 style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="font-size: small;"><span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">10. Date nights are essential</span></span></h3> <div style="border: 0px; margin-bottom: 9px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0);">It’s extremely important to plan at least one date night a month. Choose the restaurant, or prepare a romantic dinner at home, if you are a little short in cash. Date nights are essential in a successful relationship. Make sure your cellphones are off and no one disturbs you.</span></div> <span class="wp-pagenavi" style="background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); border: 0px; clear: both; font-weight: bold; margin: 0px; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 10px 0px; text-align: right; vertical-align: baseline;"></span><br /> <div style="-webkit-composition-fill-color: rgba(175, 192, 227, 0.235294); -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(26, 26, 26, 0.301961); -webkit-text-size-adjust: auto; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; background-color: white; background-position: initial initial; background-repeat: initial initial; border: 0px; color: black; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 1.2em; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 1.7em; margin: 0px 0px 9px; orphans: auto; outline: rgb(0, 0, 0); padding: 0px; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px;"> Once you find your man, you will spare no efforts to build a strong relationship with him. Good relationship is impossible without understanding, trust and respect. Happiness with your sweetheart is the result of hard work and patience. These are the most fundamental rules that every couple is supposed to follow in order to be happy and to feel comfortable together. What things do you consider to be the most significant for successful relationships?</div> </div>

10 Most Important Things to Know about Relationships

By Olga Kachma A happy and successful relationship is something that every couple strives for. At the very beginning of our love affai...

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