Obvious Signs a Guy Is Flirting with You
 Here are 9 ways that men unconsciously and even consciously let a woman know that they like her, even when it is inappropriate or a sinful likeness. Please, be careful not to become a watch dog over your husband or to be too quick in conclusions. 
9. Fidgeting
Women fidget when they are around the man they like. In the same way, if you notice a man always fidgeting when in front of a particular lady then, know that it is likely that he’s interested in her and he is a bit nervous to start conversation with her.

Ladies, who know these things easily flirt back and the rest becomes story, except something happens to deliver the man's mind and thoughts from his lust. So, woman, take care of your husband and learn to humbly, lovingly and jokingly bring his mind back when you see it drifting. Don't fight, because you will lose at the end of the day. If you pick up quarrel with him, what will you have as evidence? Take care and take charge.

8. Raised eyebrows
Raised eyebrowsThis is an old and popular way men usually give themselves away, when before a lady that they have developed interest in. Yes, men may hide their eyes when they are around a woman they have developed affections for. But, that us because they like her and may not want another to 'catch them'. Watch out, whenever she is around and talking he will unconsciously keep his eyebrows a little bit raised as well. If his eyes are widened and his eyebrows remain raised while she is talking, this is a definite sign he is flirting with her, may be in the mind, first. Watch for it and you’ll surely see it!

7. Dilated pupils

Dilated pupilsSometimes, if not all of the times, our eyes give us away when we don’t want them to. When we are attracted to someone or something our pupils dilate and they become larger. When we don’t like someone or something, our pupils contract. If you notice that the eyes of the your husband keep dilating in front of that woman, it’s one of the most obvious signs he adores her, in his mind, and is highly interested in her.

6. Head Tilts

Head TiltsWatch out when your husband begin to give attention to any particular woman or girl, always giving rapt attention whenever she is talking, with smiles all over his face. The way a man tilts his head can also signify that he likes a woman. If he tilts the head towards her, this means he’s listening attentively to each word she says, even when he may be very poor when it comes to paying attention whenever the wife is talking. This also means he’s really attuned to what she is talking about and he’s really interested and enjoying having conversation with her.

5. A flirting touch

A flirting touchWhen your husband begins to behave in such a way that he is no longer careful such that he touches a woman or girl without reason for it, then know it’s definitely a sign he is lusting and likes that other woman. I have witnessed where this happened. I guess the brother, in fact, someone in ministry, didn't realize what he did? The Sister, whom he so carelessly touched showed great sign of shame and shock but this brother was so lost to even be aware of the people around.  Later, when it seem he suspected that everyone was not happy with what he did, he came up with a story to try to divert attention. When your husband becomes fond of touching ladies accidentally, this is absolutely another sign to watch for. It means he is trying to send a message and to get her attention. Next is that, if you carefully observe him, you will see that he will always find any excuse to continue conversation with her. Those women or ladies who are smart enough and who are open to such men usually respond through making it possible for the conversation to linger more than necessary. 

4. Mirroring

Mirroring

Sometimes men mirror woman’s actions without even knowing it. Mirroring is another sign he is flirting with another woman. This ranges from mirroring blink rates to mirroring manner of speaking. For instance, you are laughing and he is laughing as well. The thing is, it’s natural for us to mirror something we love. So, it is not a mistake, when you realize that your husband just enjoys having a good laugh, whenever that other woman is also laughing. These men use mirroring to unconsciously send a message which ladies, who are open to such ungodly attention, usually cash in on.

3. Eye contact

Eye contactThis sign is a little bit tricky, but surely worth paying attention to. Eye contact is important during communication and people use this form of body language as often as they can. Flirting men usually look more than necessary, at another woman while their wives are right beside them. Depending on how long a man holds an eye contact with another woman, you can find out whether or not he likes her. If he holds an eye contact with her for longer than an average person, it might be a sign he is interested in her. The truth is that, both women and men make eye contact when flirting. So, watch out and know when your husband's mind and thoughts are racing away from you and trying to stick on someone else. 

2. Shy blush

Shy blushWomen don't find it easy flirting with shy men but many of them are still open to such men. Woman, when you notice that your husband is always blushing around a particular woman, remember that, this is one of the most obvious signs he is trying or wouldn't mind flirting with that woman, if given the opportunity. Though it is true that, not only do shy men blush, any man can actually blush when he sees a beautiful girl. Blushing is a bodily function that we can’t control and if man blushes around a particular woman often, then know that he certainly likes her.

1. Lovely smile

Lovely smile A lovely smile is actually a good sign and, when it comes to flirting, it’s one of the surest signs to know that a man is interested in a woman/girl out there. If you notice that your husband is smiling at another woman/girl, there’s a good chance he likes that woman/girl and wants to approach her. So, you see why some bold ladies take the first step. Being smart, when these ladies notice his smile, they usually take the first step. They usually assume that he is shy to take the step, so they wait for the best moment to show him their confidence and courage by approaching him first? Especially, if they like the man as well. In their 'world', there is nothing to be ashamed of in approaching a man first. So, they smile back, initiate a conversation with him and never try to play hard to get. They understand that when women play hard to get, it brings a great boost, but often it’s usually a big turn off for such flirty men.

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